We're redefining 'the talk'. It's time to have
The Porn Conversation at home

Conversation Guides

Parents and trusted adults, if you are ready to have The Porn Conversation but have no clue what to say, here are three age-appropriate guides to help.

View and download the conversation guides in English below. More languages to come! For any feedback or reviews, contact us here.

8 to 11-years-old For 8 to 11- Year-Olds
8 to 11-years-old
12 to 15-years-old For 8 to 11- Year-Olds
12 to 15-years-old
16+ years old For 8 to 11- Year-Olds
16+ years old

Erika's no-go list

The internet can be a wonderful tool for teens to learn, create and grow, to find and share interests, and communicate with friends, but it can be a risky place if misused. Just as you can teach safer sex practices to your teen, you can teach safer online practices.

By speaking candidly to our children about the dangers of the misuse of the internet and social media, we raise awareness of the presence of cyberbullying, sexual predators, online grooming, blackmail, digital abuse, and image-based sexual abuse - also known as “revenge porn”.

The truth is, what goes online, stays online. Through thoughtful dialogue we encourage our children to be mindful of their actions online and raise awareness about not only the dangers, but the support available to them.

Here are a few apps and sites we believe families should be aware of:

  • Adam4Adam
  • Badoo
  • Chatroulette
  • Discord
  • Fiesta
  • Grindr
  • Hot or Not
  • Holla
  • Houseparty
  • Instagram
  • Kik
  • Live.me
  • Meet.me
  • Omeglee
  • OnlyFans
  • Paltalk
  • Skout
  • Snapchat
  • Telegram
  • Tiktok
  • Tinder
  • Tumblr
  • Whatsapp
  • Whisper
  • Wishbone
  • Yubo

What Families Say

Parent Comments

As a single dad, I didn't know where to begin when it came to speaking with my kids about sex. The Conversation Guides made it age-appropriate and smoother than I could have imagined. Thank you!

Anders E.

Dad of a 16 & a 12 year-old, Sweden

Parent Comments

The Porn Conversation made it easy to talk about porn with my daughter. I wasn't sure where to even begin!

Ashley K.

Parent of a 12 year-old, United States

Parent Comments

I can’t thank you enough for the initiative. It made the conversation with my kids about sex and porn much easier.

Miguel F.

Dad to a 8, 10 & 13 year-old, Brazil

Parent Comments

I consider myself a sex-positive parent and The Porn Conversation Conversation Guides touched on some critical topics. It guided my family through some impactful conversations.

Renee S.

Mom of teens, United Kingdom


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